I'm not looking for a healer, or for someone to inspire me and I don't appreciate anyone telling me what I need, and I don't think because someone is educated they necessarily know all that much.  To me he's book smart, maybe, but lacks common sense. He hasn't enough sense to know if his opinions are offensive and to keep them to himself.  He has a law degree, so what, that makes him smart enough to tell others why they do what they do, and how they feel and why? I don't think so, but you may.